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Is this Verbal/Emotional/Physical Child Abuse?
My dad gets so angry sometimes. Most times. I was late for school one day and he screamed at me for like 20 minutes. And he threw away my iPod which he had no right to do since I bought it with my allowance money that my grandpa gave me. He also threw away my pants simply because he doesn’t like Skinny Jeans. And I also bought those pants with my money. And about a month ago he beat me with a shoe for half-an-hour. He said all I have to do is not get in trouble, since I’m already stupid and can’t get decent grades at school.
Even as a kid my dad was a prick. My granma used to tell stories of him and how he was always so serious.
I don’t think my dad is a bad person. I think he just has poor parenting skills. And my mom just follows whatever he says. The only one I can talk to is maybe my friends. Because the rest of my family live far, far away. In an another country. I want to move there and my dad says he’ll let me. But they said they don’t want me cuz apparently I’m a bad kid. and I will influence their kids. the whole world has gone mad.
omg you poor thing x
is there any chance of you moving somewhere away from him?
Call child services when your in a safe place away from him they will protect you from this…
Does your mum/nan know about it? Can you tell a teacher?
This needs to be sorted asap or it can turn real bad!
My step dad done stuff like that to me, he even threatened me to bury me in the garden alive when i came back from school (i was 12 at the time) I told a teacher in the end coz i couldn’t stop crying and it soon ended once people knew, now he’s not aloud anywhere near me (now 23) which is good but u realy need to tell someone official this cant carry on
Good luck with everything and I really do hope your gonna be safe x
6 Responses to “Is this Verbal/Emotional/Physical Child Abuse?”
December 8th, 2009
Posted by admin in physical child abuse | 6 Comments »
Well it sounds harsh, but different parents deal with kids different ways. Talk to him, or another adult in the family. Good luck.
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That totally is! I’m so sorry! Is there someone you could talk to about it? Like, your grandpa maybe? If it’s really bad, maybe Boarding School is an option. I hate people like your dad. Good luck, I hope things work out!
Jackie
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at least he sort of has a reason to be mad at you.
i’d agree with him and just try to stay out of trouble.
if you report him to the cops, he’ll get more angry
and ur mom might stop talking to you.
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thats not abuse, besides the shoe thing. yeaah, talk to someone you trust.
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my dad was in the military master chief to be exact so i know what its like. i had to live under "military rules" omg it was hell.
one time my dad laid his hand on me.
i can remember it to this day. i wanted to go to the beach with my best friend and her grandparents (i was like 13 or 14) and he said no. and i asked and asked and begged of course cause i wanted to go SO bad. i never got many chances to go to the beach (keep in mind we live 15 minutes from the beach my dad would never have the time to take me but i couldnt go with a friend) didnt make any sence.
well i guess i did bug him alittle too much and he just slapped the crap outa me. really hard too i cried i couldnt believe he would slap me. and after he slaped me he said you will NOT go to the beach and you will NOT ask me again and he walked away
well i winded up getting red and bruised from it. i told my dad the next time it happened i would go to the police. and i also had mom on my side my mom was very upset.
he said he was sorry and it never happened again.
so i suggest talking to him.
and getting your mom on your side is good too
cause she can do alot of convincing for you.
i will say tho. your dad has your interest best at heart im 19 now and i thank my parents so much expecially my dad for being so strict. i look back and i stayed in school i made the good grades and now im in college all my friends are NOT
i swear not one of my friends from highschool went to college but me and i was never the girl to have sex with all these guys at 15 i didnt loose my virginity till a year ago. im very happy with my life. im engaged now to the man of my dreams. unfortunetly my dad past away 2 years ago. he will be forever missed. but what im trying to say is i would have never got where i am without the way i was brought up. even tho your parents are strict its really a good thing you might hate it now but eventually you will be on your hands and knees thanking them.
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omg you poor thing x
is there any chance of you moving somewhere away from him?
Call child services when your in a safe place away from him they will protect you from this…
Does your mum/nan know about it? Can you tell a teacher?
This needs to be sorted asap or it can turn real bad!
My step dad done stuff like that to me, he even threatened me to bury me in the garden alive when i came back from school (i was 12 at the time) I told a teacher in the end coz i couldn’t stop crying and it soon ended once people knew, now he’s not aloud anywhere near me (now 23) which is good but u realy need to tell someone official this cant carry on
Good luck with everything and I really do hope your gonna be safe x
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